tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7822236028909008472.post6702137628597232692..comments2023-06-26T05:37:49.969-07:00Comments on True Confessions of a Single Mama : Thoughts of T42Abbyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14992218915423095158noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7822236028909008472.post-26816763147494667552012-03-09T17:59:12.280-08:002012-03-09T17:59:12.280-08:00For a number of reasons, a 2nd just isn't in t...For a number of reasons, a 2nd just isn't in the cards for me...it makes me sad but also a little relieved not to go thru that infancy stage again & with a toddler to boot!Tiarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17511522028218347560noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7822236028909008472.post-53811204277332070842012-03-08T03:32:28.052-08:002012-03-08T03:32:28.052-08:00I get it. I've been struggling with whether t...I get it. I've been struggling with whether to go for number 2 for awhile now. When my son was younger, before I went back to work (yes I'm in Canada so I get a year off) I was sure number 2 was in the works and would happen. Now that my son is 2 and so much fun, we're comfortable, and while I'd love another one, the thought of how to do it all is harder to deal with. I am pretty sure I will try again, I'm aiming for Nov/Dec to start, but I am also sure I will only give it a handful of tries, if it doesn't work I'm not going to any extreme. I have an amazing kid, I am so blessed and he fills my heart. That is why I want another one though. Oh, and I think I am so far removed from pregnancy and giving birth at this point, I know I was sick the whole time, threw up a lot, had a miserable induced labour, but that moment they handed him to me wiped it all or blurred it all somehow. And it's faded more since. So time might help you a bit with that stuff. <br /><br />As for being tired... I've been tired since umm the frist trimester... so coming up on 3 years now lol, you kind of get used to it.Heather Dhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05507663188778402321noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7822236028909008472.post-3051788635026562612012-03-07T19:20:21.509-08:002012-03-07T19:20:21.509-08:00I could have written this post myself (except for ...I could have written this post myself (except for the birth part, which I have yet to experience). Not a minute of a day goes by that I don't wonder what it would be like to manage a pregnancy and a toddler alone, or two small children, etc etc. I wish I could just close the door on thoughts of #2 entirely and not even address it; it would make everything so much easier. And yet that desire is still there. And for me time runs out a little sooner - I only have maybe a year to get in gear for #2 or I might as well just forget it. I so wish I had more time, but there it is. Still, I am extremely grateful that a) I get to have even one, a miracle, and b) I don't have to consult anyone else in this decision. Takes some of the bite out of it, for sure.wottadollhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16527435736562324563noreply@blogger.com